The Women in Your Life are Your Life

The first woman in your life is always your mother. And how you handle that relationship determines how you handle the rest of your life. 

For a woman, the next most important relationship is a man: her husband. For a man, his wife. These are difficult relationships and often fail. Homosexual relationships are something I cannot help you with, but it seems to me, some consistency is important here. 

Your third relationship is with yourself, which is difficult because you are so damn difficult. One of your problems is straying focussed on yourself. Meditation helps, but can only help.