Having a Native Wife

Having a wife, that is part of the native population, is not difficult to arrange - and is relatively inexpensive, by American standards.
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She keeps some measure of control, as wives do anywhere. If she is satisfied with her situation, she provides love - if she is not, she does provide this. She is not treated as well as an American wife, but she will be satisfied with what she has acquired by her marriage (formal or informal) to an American.

This is made much easier, if the American is fluent in the native language. But that is not absolutely necessary,